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Why I Count it all Joy Wednesday

2011-03-16T11:03:00.000-06:00

Help spread the JOY!! Grab my button, make your own JOY list, post it, and come back and leave a comment telling me you did!! Make the world a JOYfilled place!!

I am filled with JOY because the Lord has blessed me with another day and not just any ol’ day...it’s my birthday!!

I am filled with JOY because Drew and Isaac went to Panera and picked up breakfast for me this morning!! What sweet boys I have!!

I am filled with JOY because when I went in my bathroom to shower this morning, my sweet, sweet hubby had written “Happy Birthday, I love you” on my mirror!! He brings JOY to me daily!!

I am filled with JOY because even though Shane is gone, I will hear from him sometime today!! I truly miss that boy!!

I am filled with JOY because I woke up to tons of emails, facebook comments, texts, and even a phone call all wishing me a happy birthday!! I love my friends and family!!

I am filled with JOY because Andy, my SIL, dropped my 4 year-old granddaughter, Ella, off this morning and when he left without saying happy birthday to me Ella said, “Oh well, he must have forgotten your birthday but it’s a good thing I am here!! We are going to have sooo much fun.”

I am filled with JOY because my hubby, kiddos (except Shane), and my grandkids are all taking me to dinner tonight!!

I am filled with JOY because even while I have been dealing with life, dealing with Shane leaving, dealing with my sweet grandson coming to live with me, and just being drained emotionally some of my sweet blog friends have continued to post and help spread the JOY on their Wednesday posts!! You girls are amazing!!! Love you

I am filled with JOY because Joseph, our missionary friend who stayed with us last summer, facebooked me and wants me to get on skype so he and his family can sing happy birthday to me today!! How cool is that!! It won’t even be in English!! Such a JOY knowing him!!

I am filled with JOY because we are leaving Friday to spend a couple days in Branson!! Taking the kids and both grandkids to Silver Dollar City!! How fun!!

I am filled with JOY because we all finally got our hair cut, and boy did we ALL need it!!

I am filled with JOY because Jesus is the peace and strength I need and always shows up to wrap His arms around me at just the right time!!

Those who sow with tears will reap with songs of joy. Those who go out weeping, carrying seed to sow, will return with songs of joy, carrying sheaves with them. Psalm 126:5-6

What is filling you with JOY today???

Counting it all Joy!!

Why I Count it all Joy Wednesday

2011-03-02T06:04:00.000-06:00

It is Why I Count it all JOY Wednesday!! Please join me. Grab my button, make your list and post it on your blog!! Come back here and leave me a comment letting me know you joined in!!

I am filled with JOY because Jesus is my strength!!

I am filled with JOY because we are making it through this week, one step at a time!!

I am filled with JOY because my sweet grandson is staying with us while Shane is deployed!! He is precious!!

I am filled with JOY because Shane will get to come home for 4 days during his training before he leaves for Afghanistan!!

I am filled with JOY because even though things like this deployment rip our hearts out, we are such a close family and we stick together and hold each other up always!!

I am filled with JOY because I have had so many family members, friends, and blog friends call, come by, text, and facebook me this week. All the love and support has been awesome!! We are so blessed!!

I am filled with JOY because Adam and Isaac’s basketball team ended the season undefeated and then won the championship in the post season tournament this past weekend!!

I am filled with JOY because there’s only two more weeks until spring break!! That’s my birthday week and we will probably go to Branson for a day or two!!

I am filled with JOY because even though Shane left really sick, our God is The Healer and He has His hand on Shane.

I am filled with JOY because Jesus brings me Joy in all things!! In the midst of all our pain, He shows up in big ways, He shows us the JOY in all situations!!

“Do not grieve, the JOY of the Lord is your strength” Nehemiah 8:10

What is filling you with JOY this week??

Counting it all JOY!!

Why I Count it All JOY Wednesday

2011-02-16T08:19:00.000-06:00

I am determined to count it all joy today!! I am blogging from my phone so none of my images or pictures will upload so if you want to link up grab my button from last week (below), make your list and join us for some JOY!!

As I type, I am headed to Oklahoma City to the state going away ceremony for my sons army unit. They are leaving next Friday, the 25th, for a 12-18 month deployment to Afghanistan.

I am filled with JOY because even though his leaving rips my heart out, I am so proud of his heart to serve!!

I am filled with JOY because I have another week with him!!

I am filled with JOY because while he is gone, his baby, Slaid, will be staying with us!!

I am filled with JOY because this week was Valentines Day and continuing tradition, I made a nice dinner for all of us (pictures later) and we got to enjoy extra time together!!

I am filled with JOY because the same God who watches over and protects us at home will be holding Shane in the palm of His hand while he is serving our country overseas!!

I am filled with JOY because it was 75 degrees yesterday and we all went for a walk together!!

I am filled with JOY because there are tulips on my dining room table and they are beautiful!!

I am filled with JOY because my sweet niece is going to have her first baby in August!!

I am filled with JOY because I serve a God of peace and understanding. A God who knows my heart, He knows my Joys and He knows my hurts, He knows my strengths and He knows my challenges, and no matter what He loves me and keeps me and gives me the peace I need!!

Thank you Jesus for keeping you hand on us today as we travel and fins the JOY in all situations!! Thank you for loving me!!

What is filling you with JOY??

Counting it all JOY!!
Angel

Why I Count it all Joy Wednesday

2011-02-09T10:45:00.001-06:00

I am filled with JOY because it is another week and we are having another snow storm. After living in the Tulsa area my whole life, I am amazed. I have never seen so much snow, and we are loving it!! The kids are sledding, they built a giant igloo in our back yard that is big enough for the whole family to get in, there have been hilarious snowball fights, lots of shoveling, and we are still pretty buried.

We have so enJOYed the unexpected time together. Here we are right on the brink of Shane deploying (two weeks) and our wonderful Father gave us a blizzard and a couple extra snow storms to keep us all in and playing together. Time that would have otherwise been filled with errands, school, work, ball games, etc...

Here are a few pictures of the JOY this week!!

Lovin' the Grandbabies

Ella and Papo about to hit the hills

Slaid is really growing and loving life

The boys having fun

These two sure make me wonder if we are still in Oklahoma...

Adam and Isaac are loving all this extra fun!!

Believing you are so enjoying your family and friends and are all filled with the wonderful JOY of the Lord!!

Counting it all JOY!!

The linky I have always used has now decided to charge to use it so until I figure something else out, I would love it if you would continue to share your JOY you just won't be able to link up. Sorry

Friday Funnies

2011-02-04T12:20:00.000-06:00

Today I am joining my friend, Kim, for Friday Funnies!! If you want to enjoy more funnies or have a funny of your own to share, join us at Homesteaders Heart

Believe it or not, we have well over a foot of snow from our Blizzard still on the ground and it is currently snowing again. The forecast is for 4-6 more inches. I don’t know how familiar you are with Oklahoma, but this isn’t normal!! I LOVE IT!!

Back to Friday Funnies...

I recently received an email with some stories of Children in Church and thought some of them were really funny and wanted to share!!

A little boy was in a relative’s wedding. As he was coming down the aisle, he would take two steps, stop, and turn to the crowd. While facing the crowd, he would put his hands up like claws and roar.

So it went, step, step, ROAR, step, step, ROAR, all the way down the aisle. As you can imagine, the crowd was near tears from laughing so hard by the time he reached the pulpit.

When asked what he was doing, the child sniffed and said, “I was being the Ring Bear.”

and another...

A ten-year old, under the tutelage of her grandmother, was becoming quite knowledgeable about the Bible. Then, one day, she floored her grandmother by asking. “Which Virgin was the mother of Jesus? The Virgin Mary or the King James Virgin?

Hope you spend your Friday laughing!!

Counting it all JOY!!

Why I Count it all Joy Wednesday

2011-02-02T05:29:00.000-06:00

I am filled with JOY because I serve a great God who never ceases to amaze me!!

I am filled with JOY because last weekend we had near record temperature in the 70’s. We spent a lot of time outside and really enjoying the sunshine!!

I am filled with JOY because yesterday we had a record snowfall. In our area of Oklahoma we ranged from 14-21 inches. Amazing!!

I am filled with JOY because in the midst of that wonderful snowstorm, I had my sweet hubby home, my wonderful kids home, both my grandbabies here, a fire in the fireplace, stew in the crockpot, brownies in the oven, and games being played...makes for one JOYfilled momma!!

I am filled with JOY because I got to enjoy watching a lot of this...

No matter how big they get, they are never too big for Dad to pull them around on a sled!!

I am filled with JOY because we spent an evening with some of our very best friends!! Between the two families we have 11 kids not counting the in-laws or the grandbabies. We always have so much fun and laugh until we hurt!!

I am filled with JOY because Dan is painting the set for a stage at a local church. He is so extremely talented and I love it when he has the opportunity to use his God given gifts!!

I am filled with JOY because Adam and Isaac are doing a great job playing basketball. Their team is undefeated!! Go Arrows!!

I am filled with JOY because even though Shane is leaving in four weeks and it is truly ripping my heart out, he will have two weeks off work to spend with Slaid and our family right before he goes!!

I am filled with JOY because we just bought season passes to Silver Dollar City again. I love that it is only 4 hours away and we can go up for a weekend at a moments notice and enjoy some much needed family time without spending a fortune!!

I am filled with JOY because the Lord gives us so many things to be JOYful for, we just have to stop long enough to recognize them!!

For everything there is a season, a time for every activity under heaven. Ecclesiastes 3:1

What is bringing you JOY this week?

Counting it all JOY!!

Why I Count it all Joy Wednesday

2011-01-26T05:24:00.000-06:00

I am filled with JOY because it is the day that no matter what else is going on, I reflect on and share some of the JOYs in my life!!

I am filled with JOY because Drew has been headache free for about 2 weeks and we saw a Neurologist today and things are looking good with all that!! Praise Jesus!!

I am filled with JOY because I am having a date day with my sweet twin boys today!!

I am filled with JOY because I have been praying for Joanne for about two weeks and we are now getting great reports from her husband!! If you don’t know about Joanne, she is a mom and wife who suffered a major stroke and has been in critical condition since. You can follow her blog, which her husband is doing now, here.

I am filled with JOY because this past weekend our pastor’s message was entitled “I Quit - complaining” It was wonderful, a great word, and really encouraged us to find the JOY instead of complaining!!

I am filled with JOY because my sweet little grandbaby Slaid has really started smiling and responding to us and it just makes my heart sing!!

I am filled with JOY because even though Shane deploys on Feb. 25th, we still have a month of laughter left!!

I am filled with JOY because last night both the grandkids were here and I sat and watched my sweet hubby sit in the floor holding both of them!! He is such a great Papo!!

I am filled with JOY because I have a house to live in, a car to drive, some money in the bank, food in my pantry, a wonderful family who loves me, and a risen Savior who makes it all possible!!

I am filled with JOY because some of you love to spread the JOY as much as I do!!

Light is shed upon the righteous and joy on the upright in heart. Rejoice in the LORD, you who are righteous, and praise his holy name. Psalm 97:11-12

What is bringing you JOY this week??

Counting it all Joy!!

Why I Count it all Joy Wednesday

2011-01-19T05:42:00.000-06:00

I am filled with JOY because it is supposed to SNOW tomorrow!! I am praying and believing we will get more than last time!!

I am filled with JOY because even though Drew has an appointment with the Neurologist next week, and we will go no matter what, he hasn’t had a really bad headache in about a week!! Praise Jesus!!

I am filled with JOY because I have an amazing husband who listens to me no matter what I want to talk about!!

I am filled with JOY because Loren’s new grandbaby is going to be born today!! Yay!! I can’t wait to meet him.

I am filled with JOY because I get to watch my son with his son napping on my sofa!!

I am filled with JOY because tonight before Andy, my SIL, got here to pick up Ella, she said, “Nanny, I think my daddy is going to be way late, so we should just go to my house, pack up my stuff, and I can just have a sleepover if that’s okay with you!!” I just love that sweet little girl!!

I am filled with JOY because I’ve been watching one of my boys play basketball for about 15 years and now it is Adam and Isaac’s turn and I still love it as much as I did the first game. They are playing hard and doing great!! So proud of them!!

I am filled with JOY because we got tickets to the Harlem Globetrotters game for less than half price and we get to go Saturday night!!

I am filled with JOY because I got my teeth cleaned and polished today!!

I am filled with JOY because you guys come by and share your joys and join in to help spread the JOY!!

Though you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him now, you believe in him and are filled with an inexpressible and glorious joy, 9 for you are receiving the end result of your faith, the salvation of your souls. 1 Peter 1:8

What is bringing you JOY this week??

Counting it all JOY!!

Why I Count it all Joy Wednesday

2011-01-12T05:58:00.000-06:00

I am filled with JOY because it is Wednesday. The day of the week that I reflect on all my JOYS of the week and share them with my friends and family. Knowing and seeing the JOYS daily is a wonderful thing, but it always feels so good to share some of them.

I am filled with JOY because our doctor is finally sending Drew to a neurologist and we are still believing for complete healing!!

I am filled with JOY because Shane and Drew are assistant coaches for Adam and Isaac’s basketball team. It is so awesome to see them all on the court working together and learning from each other.

I am filled with JOY because after listening to a challenge at church, Adam (11) decided to start a bible plan off of youversion.com on my ipad. He pick one where he will read the whole bible in a year. After talking about it a bit and reading in the living room a couple of days, my oldest son (24) told him how proud he was of him and that he had inspired him to start one of the reading plans too.

I am filled with JOY because the twins won their first basketball game.

I am filled with JOY because we just found out my niece is pregnant and due in August.

I am filled with JOY because even though we hardly ever watch tv, a new season of The Biggest Loser has started and we as a family sit weekly and watch it and cry over all the challenges and triumphs!!

I am filled with JOY because we are mid way through our first week back homeschooling after a LONG Christmas break and the boys are settling back in wonderfully!!

I am filled with JOY because it snowed this week. Even though it was only a little and I would have loved a ton, it was absolutely beautiful. The seasons and changes God provides for us never ceases to amaze me.

I am filled with JOY because all things are possible!!

What is filling you with JOY this week??

Counting it all JOY!!

Why I Count it all Joy Wednesday

2011-01-05T05:35:00.001-06:00

I am filled with JOY because it is 2011 and Jesus is still Lord of my life!!

I am filled with JOY because even though Drew has been having severe headaches and we have been to the doctor and to specialists and still don’t have any answers, I have fabulous friends who came together and we laid our hands on him and prayed at the same time that so many of my facebook and bloggy friends were praying and I totally believe he is being healed in Jesus name!!

I am filled with JOY because I have a beautiful daughter who is such a wonderful friend to me!!

I am filled with JOY because we had a wonderful Christmas!!

I am filled with JOY because on Christmas morning all my kids and grandkids were here and they all sat around Dan and I as he read the story of Jesus birth from the bible. Ella was so cute, when he said Mary became pregnant, she got all excited and said, “It’s baby Jesus in there, how exciting!!”

I am filled with JOY because my son, Shane is on vacation this week and has been home with me. I so cherish this time with him, he deploys to Afghanistan Feb. 25th!!

I am filled with JOY because I didn’t get to post my JOY post last week, which was sad for me, but I had several email me and tell me they really missed it!!

I am filled with JOY because the boys and I have been making blankets for everyone and we love it!!

I am filled with JOY because I started this meme last summer and love the JOY that has been spread by others!!

"Light is shed upon the righteous and joy on the upright in heart. Rejoice in the LORD, you who are righteous, and praise his holy name." Psalm 97:11-12

Couning it all JOY!!

Why I Count it all Joy Wednesday

2010-12-22T08:44:00.000-06:00

I am filled with JOY because it is almost Christmas!!

I am filled with JOY because of the way my house looks when I round the corner and can see all the lights!! Thanks honey!!

I am filled with JOY because I am getting to spend so much extra time with my kiddos!!

I am filled with JOY because Shane is an awesome dad to Slaid!!

I am filled with JOY because I get to see both my grandbabies daily!!

I am filled with JOY because Drew finished another semester of college with a 4.0!! You are amazing Drew!!

I am filled with JOY because it’s almost Christmas Eve and one of our favorite traditions is we make a huge bed on the floor and we all sleep together so we can wake up together on Christmas morning!! It is always so silly and fun, even our big kids still really enjoy it.

I am filled with JOY because Adam and Isaac made Christmas beanies for the newborn babies at the hospital!!

I am filled with JOY because I took a month off from book reviews and have been able to read a few I have been dying to read that I don’t have to do reviews on.

I am filled with JOY because we got to go to Rhema (a huge light display) and walk around and see the lights and then stop for a hot drink with the kids!!

I am filled with JOY because I got to go to dinner with three of my favorite ladies Monday night!!

I could just go on and on this week!! JOY is in the air!! I know for some it is a season of heartache and sadness. It’s such a hard time if you have lost someone special, I know I sure miss my mom, but the Lord gives us great JOY even in the bad/hard/sad times, we just have to stop and look for it.

For to us a child is born, us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. Isaiah 9:6

What is bringing you JOY this week??

Love you all and I am Joyful believing you will a have a JOYfilled Christmas!!

Counting it all JOY!!

Why I Count it all Joy Wednesday

2010-12-15T05:54:00.003-06:00

I am filled with JOY because Jesus LOVES me!!

I am filled with JOY because we went to the Christmas Train on Sunday and even though we about froze to death, we had a great time with friends and family!!

I am filled with JOY because every night my kids gather around and we pray together for all the things we all have to pray for!!

I am filled with JOY because we drove around and looked at Christmas lights last night.

I am filled with JOY because we are on Christmas break and I love just hangin’ with my kids.

I am filled with JOY because I am almost finished Christmas shopping.

I am filled with JOY because even though Shane has to deploy in February, we still have 2 months with him and we are going to take advantage of every minute!!

I am filled with JOY because I have two precious grandkids and I get to spend lots of time with them!!

I am filled with JOY because Adam and Isaac are constantly hilarious and keep us all laughing!!

I am filled with JOY because even though my posts have been few and far between and I have been too busy to get around to even my favorite blogs, you guys still come visit me and some of you even link up!! I love my bloggy friends!!

You make known to me the path of life; you will fill me with joy in your presence, with eternal pleasures at your right hand. Psalm 16:11

What is filling you with JOY this week?

Counting it all JOY!!

Update on Dad

2010-12-10T15:00:00.000-06:00

Dad’s procedure went well this morning. The valve problem wasn’t as bad as they had first thought so they feel treating it with medication and watching it is a way better solution right now then going back in to fix it. The blockage they thought was in the main arteries is actually in the small ones. The good news, they are too small to do a bypass or put in stents. The bad news, they really can’t do anything about them. They will treat him with medication for fluid retention but say his risk of Congested Heart Failure is really high. His heart contracts good (pumps in) but the relaxing part (pumping out) is really weak. They are hoping to be able to treat this with medication and diet.

So we are thrilled they aren’t going back in to do anything but hate that what they found can’t really be fixed. We are now continuing to pray for complete healing and that he can adjust well to the new diet, (no salt, no fast food, nothing out of a can at all, etc).

He’s only 67 so prayerfully we can get on top of this before it gets any worse.

Thank you for the love and prayers!!

Counting it all JOY!!

Prayer for my Dad!!

2010-12-10T05:28:00.000-06:00

Oh how I miss visiting you all and hearing what is going on in your worlds and also sharing what is going on in mine. We have so many huge things going on right now!! I will be back as soon as I can.

In the meantime, I wanted to ask for prayer for my dad!! He will be having exploratory surgery this morning on his heart. They have found a major blockage on the front of his heart and a bad valve. They don’t feel he can withstand the amount of time it would take to assess the damage and repair it all in the same procedure so they will go in, make a plan, and then go back in at a later date to try to repair it.

After losing mom a year ago, this news has been hard to hear!!! I know the Lord has a plan though, and I am trusting Him completely!!

I will try to update this later in the day!! Thank you so much for your prayers!!

Counting it all JOY!!

Why I Count it all Joy Wednesday

2010-12-08T05:51:00.000-06:00

This week I decided to change it up a bit!!!

I am always filled with JOY during the Christmas season because it seems we are constantly reminded of all the JOY surrounding us and we don’t have to look too hard to find it.

The pictures aren't the greatest because I took them with my phone,
but it sure made me smile, and it was fun!!

The boys even got into it!!!

What’s reminding you to find the JOY???

Counting it all JOY!!

Why I Count it all Joy Wednesday

2010-12-01T06:11:00.001-06:00

I am filled with JOY because at this time of the year, everywhere you go you can find things that say JOY!!

I am filled with JOY because we only have one more week of school and then CHRISTMAS BREAK!!

I am filled with JOY because it feels like Christmas in my house!!

I am filled with JOY because my dad has been having some trouble with his legs swelling lately and after multiple tests, they have found a large blockage on the front of his heart. The JOY - they are going to be able to fix this and if his legs hadn’t swelled, they wouldn’t have found the blockage and he could have had a major heart attack.

I am filled with JOY because I ate a TON over Thanksgiving weekend but I didn’t gain any weight!!

I am filled with JOY because Shane’s birthday is this weekend and even though he is getting deployed at the first of the year, he will be home for us to celebrate with him!!

I am filled with JOY because we bought tickets to the Christmas Train and I can’t wait to go, I haven’t been in years!!

I am filled with JOY because I have been able to catch up with several old friends lately!!

I am filled with JOY because I found time to do my JOY post!!

I am filled with JOY because I have a few wonderful JOY friends who love helping me spread the JOY!!

I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete. John 15:11

What is bringing you JOY this week??

Counting it all Joy!!

Why I Count it all Joy Wednesday

2010-11-24T05:21:00.000-06:00

I am filled with JOY because it’s the most wonderful time of the year!!

I am filled with JOY because tomorrow is Thanksgiving and I will be cooking and eating and playing and relaxing and praying with all husband, all my kids, and my grandkids!!

I am filled with JOY because we got our Christmas tree up and decorated last weekend and I LOVE IT!!

I am filled with JOY because a lady stopped me in the grocery store when I was shopping for Thanksgiving dinner just to tell me that one of the twins had been a real gentleman and how wonderful it made her feel to know there are still people training up their boys to be gentlemen!!

I am filled with JOY because it is Thanksgiving break and the kids won’t be doing school!!

I am filled with JOY because Loren and I got to have coffee/lunch Monday!!

I am filled with JOY because Dan’s boss is a wonderful Christian man who isn’t afraid to pray with his employees!!

I am filled with JOY because tomorrow we will sit around the table and everyone will tell the others why they are thankful for them. Yes, there will be tears, but oh, the JOY it brings me!!

I am filled with JOY because the Lord has blessed me with an awesome husband, wonderful kids, 2 beautiful grandkids, and so many things to be thankful for!!

I am filled with JOY because I have wonderful bloggy friends that I didn’t even know last year, and for that I am Thankful!!

Isaiah 55:12 - "You will go out in joy and be led forth in peace; the mountains and hills will burst into song before you, and all the trees of the field will clap their hands."

What is bringing you JOY this week?

Counting it all JOY!!

Why I Count It All Joy

2010-11-17T06:08:00.003-06:00

I am filled with JOY because even though it has really been a trying week, I have been comforted by my Lord and the knowledge that this too shall pass!!

I am filled with JOY because last week my computer croaked, which was bad. We took it to the Apple store only to find out that the hard drive, logic board, and something else were bad and needed to be replace, total $1100.00. I still don’t have it back but the JOY - I have 52 days left on my warranty so it will be like a new computer and it won’t cost me a dime!!! Praise Jesus!!

I am filled with JOY because I got to take my sweet little granddaughter with me to get our nails done!!

I am filled with JOY because my wonderful husband put up our Christmas lights last weekend.

I am filled with JOY because we are putting up our Christmas tree this weekend!!

I am filled with JOY because my husband loves me as much as I love him all these years later and he isn’t too macho to show it!!

I am filled with JOY because my sweet baby Slaid is finally gaining some weight and getting over his jaundice.

I am filled with JOY because the boys are working real hard at school so we can have a month off for Christmas break!!

I am filled with JOY because the Lord puts people in our path to challenge us and then He helps us make the decisions He wants us to make, if we only listen!!

I am filled with JOY because Jesus is the Lord of Lords and He brings peace and love and JOY!!

Romans 14:17
God's kingdom isn't a matter of what you put in your stomach, for goodness' sake. It's what God does with your life as he sets it right, puts it together, and completes it with joy. Your task is to single-mindedly serve Christ. Do that and you'll kill two birds with one stone: pleasing the God above you and proving your worth to the people around you.

Counting it all JOY!!

My Son, My Soldier

2010-11-11T11:36:00.000-06:00

Thank you to all the Veterans who have served or are serving our country!! I know for me, it wasn’t until my son joined the Army that I even got it. I always appreciated Veterans/soldiers, but from a distance. When my son joined, my whole world changed. When he left for Basic Training his life changed, he became a man while we were missing him. When he was deployed to Iraq for a year, I wasn’t sure my heart would survive. Now that he’s a daddy and he is scheduled to deploy again in February or March for 12-18 months, the true impact of what our soldiers sacrifice to serve us and our country has become so HUGE in my heart. Please keep him in your prayers as he prepares his heart and mind to leave his family, especially that sweet baby boy he loves so much!!

If you know a Veteran, say a special thank you!!

If you know of a Veteran, find a way to send a special thank you!!

If you love a Veteran, hug them, love them, and say thank you every chance you get!!

This is my favorite Soldier!!

If you say, “The LORD is my refuge,” and you make the Most High your dwelling, no harm will overtake you, no disaster will come near your tent. For he will command his angels concerning you to guard you in all your ways; they will lift you up in their hands, so that you will not strike your foot against a stone. You will tread on the lion and the cobra; you will trample the great lion and the serpent. “Because heloves me,” says the LORD, “I will rescue him; I will protect him, for he acknowledges my name. He will call on me, and I will answer him; I will be with him in trouble, I will deliver him and honor him. With long life I will satisfy him and show him my salvation.”

Thank you Jesus for my precious son!! Thank you for the servants heart you have given him and thank you for always keeping him safe. Continue to help us all prepare our hearts and minds for this upcoming deployment. Thank you for loving him and for the plans you have for his life!!

Counting it all JOY!!

Why I “Count it all Joy” Wednesday

2010-11-10T06:08:00.001-06:00

I am filled with JOY because Jesus is so amazing in my life!!

I am filled with JOY because baby Slaid is here and ADORABLE!!

I am filled with JOY because even though he was 3 weeks early and tiny, he is healthy and already home!!

I am filled with JOY because we had his baby shower last night and I got to see several old friends!!

I am filled with JOY because my kids love me and aren’t afraid to show it!!

I am filled with JOY because some of the neighbor kids came by and asked my son to come to their Veterans Day concert because they want him to be honored since he is a veteran.

I am filled with JOY because even when I can’t see the answer to life’s little issues, I know that God has a plan and it will all work out!!

I am filled with JOY because while I sat here typing my JOY list, my boys started singing, “I’ve got the JOY JOY JOY JOY down in my heart, down in my heart, down in my heart...” So glad they have learned to see the JOY!!

I am filled with JOY because I am going to start putting up Christmas decorations this weekend!! I love the Christmas season!!

I am filled with JOY because even though my posts have been few and far between lately, you guys still come back and show me love!!

Psalm 118:24 - "This is the day the LORD has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it."

What is filling you with JOY this week?
Counting it all JOY!!

The JOY of a Grandson

2010-11-08T05:45:00.001-06:00

On Friday afternoon, with grandparents, great grandparents, aunts, and uncles present and anxiously waiting, Slaid Daniel made his debut.

Our first grandson!! He’s a tiny little thing!! Weighing in at 6 pounds 8 ounces, he stole all our hearts. Smallest baby in our family for sure. My kids weighed 8-9 1/2 pounds, so this was definitely a new thing for us. Three weeks early, but healthy and ready to be here.

After a long night and day, he is finally here. Dad proud of son and Pappo proud of son and grandson. I just love my guys!!

Love this picture of my four boys in such awe of this little blessing!!

Nanny lovin on that baby!!

Loren came to visit!! Pretty amazing having grandkids together after all these years!!

Adam and Isaac made him an oversized beanie to wear home!! The hospital nursery nurse asked them if they would start making them for all the babies, how exciting!!

Two days old and already changing so much. He’s home and weighing in at 5 pounds 13 ounces.

It is truly amazing to witness the JOY of a baby, knowing the Lord has a plan for his life and now being able to watch it play out. I can’t wait to see how the Lord uses Slaid for His purpose!!

I sure hope your weekend was filled with lots of JOY!!

Counting it all Joy!!

Why I “Count it all Joy” Wednesday

2010-11-03T05:20:00.001-06:00

I am filled with JOY because Jesus loves me even when I don’t deserve it!!!

I am filled with JOY because Dan is home from China!!

I am filled with JOY because it’s almost time to put up the Christmas decorations!! I can’t wait!!

I am filled with JOY because it’s basketball season for my kids!! I love watching them play!!

I am filled with JOY because Shane and Drew are going to help with the boys basketball team so Shane took them to practice tonight and I got to go get my nails done!! Been way too busy to fit that in!! Thanks Shane!!

I am filled with JOY because the last few weekends have been packed and have left me feeling like I needed a weekend when they were up, but this weekend is completely unscheduled!! Yay for some quiet time with my family!!

I am filled with JOY because our new grandson should be making his debut in the next 2 or 3 weeks!!

I am filled with JOY because I have the best husband in the world! He is so wonderful to do things for me when I run out of time and don’t get them done. Even when it means running to the store at 10:00 at night!!

I am filled with JOY because I have bloggy friends who love to spread the JOY!!

You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit—fruit that will last—and so that whatever you ask in my name the Father will give you. John 15:16

What’s filling you with JOY this week??

Counting it all JOY!!

Weekend Fun

2010-11-01T08:53:00.000-06:00

Just a little neighborhood trick or treating!! We’ve never really liked all the yuck of Halloween, and haven’t ever let our kids get into all that scary, creepy stuff, but we love dressing up in fun/funny costumes!! We love our neighborhood, it’s like when we were kids!! Everyone is out walking - parents and kids. Neighbors strolling the streets together, talking. A fun time of fellowship!! And thankfully, we live in a neighborhood with people who, for the most part, aren't into all the yuck either. Now to just stay out of the tons of candy we brought home!!

This year we had -

Adam as a Caveman!!

Isaac as a Disco Dude!!

Our granddaughter, Ella, as a Ladybug!!

Believing you will all have a fabulous week!!

Counting it all JOY!!

Why I “Count it all Joy” Wednesday

2010-10-26T11:12:00.006-05:00

I usually try to keep my JOY posts short and light, but I posted this late in the day Tuesday and then decided to repost it for my JOY post!!! I can't think of too many things more joyful than miracles!!

Four years ago today, my life changed!! The Lord blessed me with a precious granddaughter!! I had no idea what I was in for, but I was so excited!! I had no idea she would steal my heart like she has!! I had no idea she would love me like she does!!

It all started out rough!! She was sick when she was born and had way too many machines hooked up to her!! It just broke my heart. I remember standing at that nursery window, praying and crying like never before!! Begging Jesus for a miracle, her little body needed healing and I knew the man for the job!! In no time, she was well and able to go home.

Lindsey could only touch her feet!! Talk about breaking your heart!!

We finally got to cuddle her!!

Finally going home!!

Little did we know that two months later, we would be taking an ambulance ride back to the hospital. The diagnosis - seizures. What caused them, no one knew!! The doctors couldn’t explain it. The ran every test imaginable, poked her over and over, and in a Nanny’s mind just plain tortured her. We spent her first Christmas in the hospital, but that didn’t stop us from having fun, loving each other, and praying and believing for another miracle. Eventually we got to take her home again, but she continued to have unexplained seizures. Month after month, doctor appointment after doctor appointment, test after test, specialist after specialist, and still seizures with no answers.

Her entire head was covered with wires!!

Too many tubes, wires, and machines!!

Ella’s first Christmas!!

After a year of this, we took her to a specialist in Dallas at the Children’s Hospital and he finally gave us a diagnosis. Not what we wanted to hear, but it sure could have been worse. He said there was no cure for what she had and that she would probably get progressively get worse as she aged. But that it could be treated and maintained, so to speak. They wanted to do more testing, but the doctor was sure the diagnosis was correct. We all agreed we would wait on another seizure episode to start the new testing, which wasn’t going to be fun.

Ella’s 1!!

We came home and prayed for another miracle. We loved on her, played with her, cuddled her every chance we got!! And we continued to pray for a miracle.

But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5

What JOY!!

Today Ella turned 4 years old, and she is healed!! She has been seizure free for 2 years. She never had those horrible tests because after we left Dallas, she never had another seizure episode!! You would never be able to tell she was ever sick!! Just like I said in the beginning, we knew the Man for the job and boy did He show up in a big way for Ella!!

Thank you Jesus for her precious life!!

Happy Birthday to my beautiful grandbaby girl!! Nanny loves you tons!!

Counting it all JOY!!

Why I “Count it all Joy” Wednesday

2010-10-20T08:39:00.000-05:00

I am filled with JOY because Dan will land in China this morning and call me on Skype!!

I am filled with JOY because when I went to bed last night, exhausted from being mom and dad, I realized I hadn’t written my JOY post, the JOY, I can do it late and still be loved!!

I am filled with JOY because Adam and Isaac’s worst allergy/asthma season is just about over!!

I am filled with JOY because I am going to sit with Loren today!! She had surgery Friday and is at home healing!!

I am filled with JOY because when I was putting my kids to bed last night, Adam said, “Mom, you are awesome!!” I said, “Why do you say that!!” He said all the normal - you take care of us stuff, then he said, “You put up with all of us and you laugh and you don’t even have to be in a straight jacket!” (You know it’s crazy around your house when your kids even know a straight jacket might not be out of the question)

I am filled with JOY because I have a beautiful daughter who has grown into a beautiful wife, mom, and friend!!

I am filled with JOY because the leaves are finally BEGINNING to turn around here!! I just love all the Fall colors!!

I am filled with JOY because even though I have been married 20 years, I still miss Dan when he travels like I did when we were young and first married, and can’t wait for him to return!!

I am filled with JOY because Jesus is my JOY and strength!!

I am filled with JOY because some of you help me spread the JOY week after week!!

You will go out in joy and be led forth in peace; the mountains and hills will burst into song before you, and all the trees of the field will clap their hands. Isaiah 55:12

What’s filling you with JOY this week?

Counting it all JOY!!

A Day at the Patch!!

2010-10-18T05:23:00.002-05:00

Drew and I took the kids to the Pumpkin Patch last week. The Lord blessed us with a beautiful fall day and we really enjoyed it.

When we were leaving, I posed the kids for one last picture and a guy from one of our news channels walked up and talked to the kids for a minute. He wasn’t filming, so I just continued to take pictures. When we were leaving the kids told me that he took video of me taking pictures of them, I thought that was kind of weird. The next day we saw the news report and believe it or not, there I was!! A REALLY close up shot of the side of my face taking a picture, I was sad he didn’t get the kids on there.

How are you enjoying your Fall days?

Dan leaves today for the first leg of his trip to China. He will be flying all day tomorrow, please keep him in your prayers!!

Counting it all JOY!!

Friday Funnies - It's Me!!

2010-10-15T10:40:00.000-05:00

Today I am joining my sweet friend Kim at Homesteader’s Heart. If you like a good laugh, join her for Friday Funnies!!

Last weekend while shopping in Branson, we came across this mannequin.

She’s a pretty cool mannequin and at first glance we all agreed she resembled me. I think it was really just the hair, but the kids kind of got a laugh out of it. As with everything else in life, we took a picture of her.

Later in the week, I received this in an email from my sweet hubby!!

He highlighted her hair, lightened her eyebrows, and gave her my eyes and glasses, LOL!!

Hope you all have a FUN weekend!!

Counting it all JOY!!

Why I “Count it all Joy” Wednesday

2010-10-12T22:50:00.000-05:00

I am filled with JOY because Jesus loves me and lifts me up and carries me when I don’t feel like walking.

I am filled with JOY because I got to go shopping in Branson last weekend to shop and I got some really good deals, and a start on Christmas shopping.

I am filled with JOY because Dan is home this week.

I am filled with JOY because this week is Fall Break and we are playing together.

I am filled with JOY because last week in the midst of dealing with the death of Aunt Vicki, I got to be present during the ultrasound for our new grandbaby! He is so cute and he will be here soon!!

I am filled with JOY because my kids, even the grown ones, like to hang out with me.

I am filled with JOY because I have had so many wonderful women pour into my life and help me become the mom, wife, and Nanny I am supposed to be.

I am filled with JOY because the evenings are getting cooler and there will be a fire in the fireplace in no time!!

I am filled with JOY because my kids have learned to find the JOY in situations that at face value don’t seem to be too JOYful, and have learned to enJOY the little things in life.

I am filled with JOY because week after week you guys come back and help me spread the JOY!!

But let all who take refuge in you be glad; let them ever sing for joy. Spread your protection over them, that those who love your name may rejoice in you. Psalm 5:11

What is filling you with JOY this week?

Counting it all JOY!!

Giveaway Winner!!!

2010-10-07T05:35:00.000-05:00

And the winner is...I'm so excited!!!

One of my very first bloggy friends...she's cute as can be!!!

The person who would maybe like one of these...for her gorgeous daughters!!!

Congratulations to my friend Mimi from He & Me + 3!! If you don’t know Mimi, you should go visit her here, you will absolutely love her!!

Counting it all Joy!!

Why I “Count it all Joy” Wednesday

2010-10-05T22:20:00.001-05:00

Written on Tuesday morning:

This morning after dropping Dan off at the airport, I returned home knowing it was going to be a busy day!! We had school to do, I have Ella for the day, we were going to visit my Aunt Vicki again, the boys have basketball practice until 7, and then dinner to make so I can feed the kids!! I had also decided to do my JOY post early, schedule it, and maybe even some other posts to get ahead knowing I would be hard pressed to get them done in the next few days!!

Unfortunately, I came home, started school with the boys and received that dreaded phone call!! Aunt Vicki passed away this morning in her sleep!! As I sat here crying, I was trying to find that JOY I speak so highly of!! She is only 57 years old, way too young to die. She has two small grandkids who need a grandma, I would have been lost without mine. She hasn’t even gotten to retire yet. She’s the second YOUNGEST sister, not the oldest. They were planning a mom/daughter trip for “The Sisters” and their daughters and she was going to have to be one of the stand ins for my mom so my sister and I wouldn’t be without a mom. All these things were going through my head and as much as I wanted to see JOY in this, I was having a hard time.

I made all the necessary phone calls and heard all the normal responses, “I’m so sorry”, “I wish I had gotten over there to see her”, “She’s in a better place now”, etc...

The funny thing is that’s where I found my JOY!!

I’m so sad and sorry she’s gone - sorry for me and for her family, but I am so filled with JOY that I know where she is!! She lived a life for Jesus and was proud of it.

I don’t have to say “I wish I had gotten over there to see her” - I am filled with JOY that I was just there with her!!

I am so filled with JOY that even though she is gone at such a young age, she spent those years doing hair, being a wife, raising kids, loving her grandbabies, and all the other things us ladies do, but with one goal in mind - to end up in Heaven, loving on Jesus and making sure the people she did life with will end up there too.

I am so filled with JOY that her long and painful battle with cancer is over. Maybe we all lost her to cancer, but the truth is, she won the battle and is now looking into the face of her complete Healer!!

I am so filled with JOY that while I am sitting here crying, she is singing praises straight to the King of Kings!!

I am filled with JOY that she is walking down the streets with my mom, just like they did when they were kids, only now the streets are made of gold!!

I am so filled with JOY that even though Dan left on a business trip this morning and he is not here with me, he will be home Friday. I had a feeling he would be gone when she passed, but so glad it was this trip and not the long one to China!!

So although I am really sad, I am filled with JOY that I am still here loving Jesus, my family, and my friends, and one of these days I will be with all those I love that have gone on before me. But until then I have about a million giggling, brownie making, story telling, midnight snacking, Jesus talking, all around great time sleepovers at Aunt Vicki’s house memories that will always be mine!!

Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of his saints. Psalm 116:15

Counting it all JOY!!

Weekend Wrap-up

2010-10-05T05:55:00.005-05:00

The weekend was busy getting some things taken care of before Dan was to leave for Atlanta (which he did this morning). Some weren’t feeling too well on Saturday, so we didn’t do a whole lot. Sunday we had all planned to go to the fair together, and we were excited about that. We aren’t real big on rides at the fair, but we like some of the fair food, and we like to look at all the stuff in the buildings.

I knew some of the Food Network Cake Challenge (one of my favorite shows) people were going to be there and I always go look at the cakes in the cake competition. So fun to see all the new things people are doing and get new ideas. They also have some fun vendors that we don’t usually have here in Tulsa. Anyway, one of the guys who is on the challenge a lot and wins a lot was there!! I was so excited when he was walking right towards me, and like a school girl, I stopped him for this picture!!! Don’t think my kids were too crazy about it, but they have learned to smile and love me anyway!! They are probably just glad I wasn’t taking pictures of them and cupcakes again!!

He’s not like my favorite cake person in the world, but he is really good and I wouldn’t be a bit sad to learn a few things from him!! Here is some of his work (not his best in my opinion, but all I could find).

Please keep Dan in your prayers as he travels this week. He will be home on Friday evening, he’ll be here a week, and then he leaves for China again!!

Also continue praying for my Aunt Vicki!! She is really not doing well at all and they don’t expect her to last much longer!! She is way too young to die (57), but we all know God has a plan and things will happen in His timing. We just don’t want her to suffer any longer!! She’s not happy about leaving her family, but she is definitely ready to be with Jesus in paradise!!

Jesus answered him, "I tell you the truth, today you will be with me in paradise." Luke 23:43

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Believing you are all having a fabulous, JOYfilled week!!

Counting it all JOY!!

Friday Funnies - Kids Prayers

2010-10-01T05:53:00.004-05:00

Today I am joining my friend Kim from Homesteaders Heart. If you love need a good chuckle, check out her Friday Funnies!!

Just the honesty of kids!! They aren’t afraid to say or ask whatever is on their heart. If we could all be as a child...

Believing you will all have a fabulous weekend!!

If you haven’t signed up for my giveaway go here!!

Counting it all JOY!!

CSN Giveaway!! How Exciting!!

2010-09-30T05:55:00.001-05:00

Last week I got an email from CSN Stores offering a giveaway to my blog followers, how cool is that!! I couldn’t believe all they had to offer. With over 200 stores, they have a huge variety of products, and they definitely have something for everyone.

CSN is allowing me to giveaway a $35 gift card redeemable at any of their 200 sites.

I really enjoyed looking at all the products while trying to pick a few to share with you. I started at the dining chairs. I have a bar and have never purchased barstools for it, so thought that was a good place to begin.

I found two I really like!!

Being the foodie that I am, next I went to the kitchen gadgets and loved this.

After that I went to the toys and games. We love our Friday Family Nights and are always looking for a new game to play!! This is one we enjoy when all the kids are here!

I will be drawing and announcing the winner next Thursday, October 7th.

To enter this giveaway:

• You have to be a follower of my blog.

• Go to the CSN site and look at some of the products and leave me a comment telling me what you would be interested in. (doesn’t have to be what you buy if you win)

• Mention my giveaway with a link back to me on your blog - 2 entries

• Mention my giveaway on your facebook or twitter - 2 entries

That is 6 chances to win!! Remember to leave me a comment for each one you do.

Good luck and happy shopping!!

Counting it all JOY!!

Why I “Count it all Joy” Wednesday

2010-09-29T08:01:00.000-05:00

I am filled with JOY because Jesus love ME always no matter what. There is nothing I can do to make HIM love me more or less!!

I am filled with JOY because the boys started basketball this week and even though it is sooo far from our house, I have 2 hours, twice a week to sit at practice and read, write my blog posts, catch up with friends and family, etc...

I am filled with JOY because our new little grandson will be here in less than 2 months!!

I am filled with JOY because our state fair starts tomorrow and we are all going together this weekend!!

I am filled with JOY because it’s almost time to go to the pumpkin patch and get some more fall decorations!!

I am filled with JOY because the hundred and something dollar basketball shoes the doctor prescribed for Isaac we found for half the price. We were able to get Adam’s and Isaac’s for what we thought we would be spending on Isaac’s alone!! Praise Jesus!!

I am filled with JOY because it’s homemade soup, stew and chili season.

I am filled with JOY because Adam and Isaac cleaned out and organized their closet and it looks fabulous!!

I am filled with JOY because Ella sang, “You Are My Best Friend Nanny” to me over and over yesterday!! (Just a little song she made up), she is such a JOY!!

I am filled with JOY because you guys are awesome and link up to help me spread the JOY!!

Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. Romans 12:12

What’s filling you with JOY this week??

Counting it all Joy!!

Breakfast, Friends, and Jesus!!

2010-09-28T05:45:00.004-05:00

Yesterday morning I had breakfast with my wonderful friend Loren and our bloggy friend Steph of stephtmomof3. If you don’t know Steph, click here and check out her blog, you will love her!! We had so much fun sharing and laughing together!! It is so cool to get to know all my blog friends through their posts, but it was really great to get to have breakfast and get to know Steph in “real life”.

After breakfast, Loren and I were standing in the parking lot talking and noticed this super cute, little, old lady walking by. We commented on how cute she was, but didn’t really think much of it. A while later, I noticed her again only closer to us, and said to Loren, “do you think she is lost or something, maybe we should check on her.” We walked over and asked her if she was okay and she began to tell us that she comes to this parking lot some to get enough money to buy groceries. During the course of the conversation, she told me she had ridden the city bus for years and that when she turned 80, they gave her a free bus pass and that was how she gets around. She lives with her son and DIL who is extremely sick and needs full time help. She is now 89 and does all the cooking and cleaning for her son and DIL to help them and goes out to try to get money so her son can stay home and take care of his wife. I was so touched listening to her. She was absolutely precious!!

She then told us she never asks anyone for money until they have already been in a restaurant to eat and are leaving because she wants to make sure no one ever does without on her account. She also said every night she prays for every person who gives her money to be blessed back with more than they gave.

As I stood listening to her, I really began thinking about my Nanny!! She too was a sweet, little, old lady who gave up everything to take care of my siblings and I. Although she never was so short on money, I knew had she ever been, she could have been that sweet old lady walking through parking lots trying to get enough money to feed us. My heart is breaking here!! What if people had treated her badly, what if people didn’t help her, how would she have felt if she hadn’t had enough money to feed us...

Then to my horror, I remembered that I had grabbed my tiny little clutch with my debit card on the way out the door and I didn’t even have a dollar to give this sweet lady. I told her and showed her in my clutch that I didn’t have any money (thank the Lord Loren had a little and gave it to her) but that I would really love it if she told me her name because I really wanted to pray for her. She said her name was Fern and she sweetly told Loren thank you and that she really appreciated it, she also asked if giving her the money would cause a hardship. At this point she said, “I know this money will do me good, but the prayers will do so much more.”

So we all held hands, and I prayed for her. We told her we would continue to pray for her and to be safe. At this point we walked away and my heart was really heavy. I know the Lord puts people like Fern in our paths, not only for us to be a blessing to, but to remind us of the many blessings I take for granted on a daily basis. To remind me of the wonderful Nanny I had who sacrificed so much for me. To remind us that no matter what is going on in our lives, everyone else has something going on in their life too. To remind us of why we are here in the first place, to show and be Jesus to the world around us.

Please remember my sweet Fern in your prayers, and remember to always be looking for your Fern!!

"The King will reply, 'I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.” Matthew 25:40

Don’t forget tomorrow is Why I Count it all Joy Wednesday!! Grab my button, make your list, it doesn’t have to be long, one thing, one hundred things, it doesn’t matter, just find your JOY and come back and link up so you can share it with us. Remember JOY is contagious!!

Counting it all JOY!!

It Turned Fall!!!

2010-09-27T08:31:00.000-05:00

What a busy and fun weekend we had. Friday I played some basketball with the boys. There practices start this week so we headed out for some fun. Isaac was really complaining about one of his feet and eventually the pain was so bad he was crying. I called the doctor and Praise the Lord, they got us right in. Apparently, he has a heel spur. Very painful I guess. They said there isn’t much they can do about it, just wear good supportive shoes, she actually recommended a pair of $100 basketball shoes. I about fell over. First of all he’s a twin, so we do everything twice, second of all, he won’t be able to wear them very long because he is at that age were his feet seem to grow a size a month. So I am seriously believing for some real favor when I go B-ball shoe shopping!! Please keep Isaac and his hurting heel in your prayers!!

Saturday - Dan and the boys made a bird feeder for our backyard. It’s just a quickly thrown together feeder. I actually assigned a bird project for school and that is part of it. If it goes well, we will build a better one later!! Unfortunately, the bird seed got spilled on the driveway, we swept up most of it, but I did scatter some that was left. We haven’t seen any birds in the backyard at the feeder, but Lindsey came in yesterday afternoon and said, “you all have about 100 birds in your driveway, wonder why?” I just laughed!!

We went to church Saturday night!! I just love that!! The message series “I Believe In You” has been awesome. That’s just something we all need to hear and say!!

Last night I went to dinner with my cousins. Our moms are all sisters, so we grew up together, but don’t get to spend a lot of time together now. I lost my mom about a year ago, and now one of my aunts is about to go meet Jesus as well. She has had cancer for several years. It started out as breast cancer but has now spread and the doctor told them 2 weeks ago he didn’t think she would make it till her birthday, which is October 30th. So very sad. She is not even 60 yet. Please keep her and my family in your prayers.

When I returned home from our dinner, my sweet hubby had build a fire in our “we live in a neighborhood with rules” fire pit. Actually, our daughter and son-in-law just bought it for us, and we so love it. Not much better in the Fall than sitting around a fire with family. We sat out there and laughed and made s’mores and laughed some more. What a great ending to a busy, Fall weekend!!

Hope you all had a fabulous Fall weekend too!!

Counting it all JOY!!

Friday Funnies - Can You Do It

2010-09-24T05:40:00.005-05:00

Today I am joining my friend Kim at Homesteader’s Heart for Friday Funnies. If you want to join in on all the fun, click here!!

I ran across this video on accident and couldn’t believe it. The first minute is kind of cheesy, but stick with it and you won’t believe these ladies. Oh, and if any of you can do ANY of this, my kids and I want to meet you!!

Praying and believing you will all have a JOYfilled weekend!!

Counting it all JOY!!

Worth Sharing!!

2010-09-23T10:16:00.000-05:00

After doing my Family Quotes post, I received these in an email from my sweet hubby!! I thought they were worth sharing!!

1. Life isn't always fair, but it's still good.

2. Pay off your credit cards every month.

3. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.

4. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

5. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.

6. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

7. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.

8. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

9. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.

10. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.

11. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?

12. Forgive everyone everything.

13. Believe in miracles.

14. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.

15. Your children get only one childhood.

16. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

18. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

19. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.

20. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.

Counting it all JOY!!

Why I “Count it all Joy” Wednesday

2010-09-21T22:30:00.001-05:00

I am filled with JOY because the creator of the universe thinks I am wonderful!!

I am filled with JOY because it’s officially Fall!!

I am filled with JOY because Drew, who is the cookie KING, made his famous cookies for us last night!! YUMMY!!

I am filled with JOY because I was asked to receive a CSN product to review and keep!!

I am filled with JOY because for the past 4 or 5 months the city has been putting in a new bridge on the main highway right by our neighborhood. The traffic has been horrible to the point of having to leave our house 10-15 minutes early no matter where you are going, but last weekend the bridge opened up. I just love the little conveniences of life.

I am filled with JOY because as much as I love it when the season changes to Spring and Summer and the flowers bloom and everything looks so pretty, I also love it when it’s Fall and you don’t have to mow anymore for a while!! (I don’t do the mowing, but I’m glad my boys get a break)

I am filled with JOY because in two weeks we are going to Branson for a weekend getaway and some shopping at the amazing sales they always have at the Outlet Malls.

I am filled with JOY because the books I have been getting lately to review have been really good!! If you don’t follow my book blog, I would love it if you would!!

I am filled with JOY because when I don’t feel so wonderful, my hubby is so sweet. He just sits for hours and plays with my hair (which is my favorite thing in the world), and anything else he can to help me feel better.

I am filled with JOY because you guys love spreading JOY as much as I do and you link up with me week after week!!

When your words came, I ate them; they were my JOY and my heart's delight, for I bear your name, O LORD God Almighty. Jeremiah 15:16

What’s filling you with JOY this week??

Counting it all JOY!!

Family Quotes

2010-09-21T05:55:00.001-05:00

I just love my family!! During our family time last night, I asked them for some of their favorite quotes. I wanted originals and some they like that came from others (noted)!! This is what I got!!

Isaac - You know you’re a redneck when you go to prom on a stretched four wheeler. (Isaac quote)

Last night my toe was as big as my face. (from My Big Fat Greek Wedding)

Life is an occasion, rise to it!! (from Mr. Magorium’s Wonder Emporium)

Adam - When you tell someone about Jesus, you plant a seed but the plant will get withered and droopy unless it is continually watered. (Adam quote)

Adam, who is probably the funniest of us all, was very disappointed that he couldn’t come up with a funny quote. He said, “Come on, I can’t think of anything funny when I need to be funny, that’s like a clown who can’t juggle.”

Dan - As time passes, faults fall away and hope of new possibilities arrive. (Dan quote)

Drew - All of Drew’s quotes are his original quotes that at one time or another were written as his facebook status.

When you look into the moon, what do you see? A true and pure beauty. The beauty and sparkle that I am convinced you can only see within the moon itself and the eyes of the person you love. I don’t even know who the person is, but I know that whenever I look into her eyes, I will see the same beauty I see in the moon and the stars lighting up the dark sky. (Drew quote)

A snow storm is like a woman, when a good one comes along, you get stuck in your tracks!! (Drew quote)

Stop planning the future as the present fades away. Today is a guarantee while tomorrow is nothing more than a possibility. (Drew quote)

I studied 27 hours today!! (Drew during finals week)

What kinds of things are coming out of your kids hearts and silly minds??

Don't forget tomorrow is Joy filled Wednesday!! Grab my button, make your list, and come back and link up!!

Counting it all Joy!!

Something Beautiful

2010-09-20T05:48:00.000-05:00

Today I am excited to be joining two of my friends, Renee for Something Beautiful, and Southern Reflections for Meet and Greet Monday!!

My Something Beautiful this week is actually two things, one I went to the Owasso homecoming to share in the night with my wonderful friend Loren. Her daughter Jenna had been nominated for Homecoming Queen and they would be announcing the winner at the game. Jenna is such a beautiful young lady, inside and out. Oh what a joyous occasion it was when they announced the moment we had been waiting for... Jenna McGhee for the 2010 Owasso Homecoming Queen!! We screamed and laughed and cried!! Congratulations Jenna!! I am so proud of you!!

Loren's daughter, Jenna and my son, Drew

I have been blogging for about 7 months now and have been so blessed to make so many wonderful bloggy friends!! The love, support, and encouragement I get from you guys is wonderful. I love feeling like I know so many of you and feeling like no matter where I go in the US, I will have a friend!!

The other beautiful thing is while I was at the homecoming, I got to meet one of the wonderful ladies I have become friends with in Blogland!! Steph from stephTmomof3. How exciting that was. We didn’t get to spend much time together, but we enjoyed the time we had!!

What Beautiful things are happening in your life??

Counting it all JOY!!

The Cupcake Saga Ends...

2010-09-17T06:02:00.001-05:00

First of all I want to thank all of you for staying with me through this whole cupcake saga!! I have had so many emails from you guys telling me how much you enjoyed it and asking what the final decision was. I wish it was just that easy!!!

The producer told me they had researched and found what they thought looked like the best cupcake companies in the two largest cities of every state. They contacted all of these companies and were waiting on responses from them all. The plan was to fill up all the filming slots for Season 2 which would be filming in September. The next plan was to start filling up the filming slots for Season 3 which will film next Spring or Summer.

They wanted me to come in September (as in right now) to film the show and that just wasn’t possible for me. That just wasn’t enough notice for me to be mentally ready as well as having everything arranged for my family so I or we could be back in California that soon. I told them that very first day there was no way that would work for me. They asked me what I thought about two other local cupcake companies and I told the they should contact one of them. She is a friend of mine but she isn’t local anymore. She recently got married and moved to Utah. Since then I have heard they did get a hold of her but she isn’t going to do the show.

At this point they have left it up to me as to whether I want to come film for Season 3.

That being said, the answer for now is - after lots of prayer, travel, cupcake comparisons, and just plain “I don’t have time”, I am not going to do the show!!

The JOY in all of this is it prompted us add the cupcake adventure to our vacation which was fun and in turn helped me realize that as fun as doing that show would be, I don’t need it to prove to me my cupcakes are the best!! I really don’t need the judges comments because I never wanted to be the best cupcake baker to anyone other than those who already think I am the best and that is my sweet hubby and kids!! They are my world, they are my best critics and my best fans, my best taste testers and my best judges.

I will end this saga with this... over the last month or so I have shown pictures of cupcakes from cupcakeries from here to California and back so now I want to show you some of my own!!

Chocoliscious

Chocolate Covered Cherry

Pumpkin Spice

Christmas Mint Chocolate

A couple of Wedding Tower Cupcakes

Goin’ Bananny

May I Have “S’more”

Caramel Apple

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Phil. 4:6-7

Counting it all Joy!!

Why I “Count it all Joy” Wednesday

2010-09-15T07:12:00.000-05:00

Welcome to Why I Count It All Joy Wednesday!! To join in on all the JOY, grab my button, make your own JOY list, it doesn’t have to be long, one thing, one hundred things, it doesn’t matter, just find your JOY and come back and link up so you can share it with us. Remember JOY is contagious!!

I am filled with JOY because I serve a loving and forgiving God who gives me peace and JOY in all situations!!
I am filled with JOY because Friday we get to go to the Owasso Homecoming and cheer on sweet Jenna!!
I am filled with JOY because when crazy things happen around here, Dan and I just look at each other and laugh!!
I am filled with JOY because I won a $10 gift card to Starbuck from Steph at and I get to meet her for coffee soon!!
I am filled with JOY because Ella spent the night with us on Monday night and Tuesday morning she crawled into bed with me to cuddle and she said, “Hi Nanny, I sure been missin’ you”!! Love that lovin’
I am filled with JOY because Dan finished the shoe/coat cabinet in my laundry room and it looks fabulous!! He is amazing!!
I am filled with JOY because I got to spend some time with Loren’s mom Saturday night. You have to understand, during our school years she was my “other” mom and now that my mom is gone, it sure felt good spending time with her!! Just love you Connie!!
I am filled with JOY because I went shopping Saturday morning and when I got home, my sweet hubby and boys had cleaned the house for me!! What sweethearts!!
I am filled with JOY because I received a book in the mail months ago that I was dying to read but have had so many book reviews to do that I haven’t had time to even look at it, but now I am reading it and LOVING it!!
I am filled with JOY because you guys link up week after week and help me spread the JOY!!
However, do not rejoice that the spirits submit to you, but rejoice that your names are written in heaven." Luke 10:20
So what is filling you with JOY this week??
Counting it all Joy!!

Just What I Needed!!

2010-09-14T06:06:00.001-05:00

It seems in the last couple of months life has been like a hurricane around me. There have been so many things going on here pushing and shoving me in so many different directions that at times I have felt lost and without direction. It has been taking so much just to stay afloat that I haven’t been able to sail like I want/need to. So many big decisions, so many curve balls, the year anniversary of my moms unexpected death, preparing myself mentally for Shane’s deployment, just a lot of stuff!!

My quiet time has been rushed, my sleep time has been short, my family time has been busy, and finally I think my mind and body said “enough”. Sunday night I just felt sick, my heart felt sick, my head felt fuzzy, I just didn’t feel well, which isn’t normal for me. Yesterday, I got out of bed feeling the same way, rushed through my quiet time, we needed to get breakfast done, school started, and Ella would be here soon. Needless to say, by afternoon, I was feeling shot, exhausted, no energy at all. I even took a short nap (way out of character for me).

Our church was having a special praise and worship night which we had planned to attend. The kids were all excited about it, and even though I really just wanted to go to bed, I said we are going, not gonna miss this!!

The first song began to play, my hands went up, and I could just feel the presence of Jesus, wrapping me in His arms and loving me. As song after song played, and tear after tear fell, I could just feel Him taking all the junk and reminding me how much easier it all is when I give it to Him. Reminding me that I am not Wonder Woman, and that the only one who expects that of me is ME!!

Nothing I didn’t already know, just a friendly reminder that I desperately needed!! A healing/refreshing of my heart, soul, and mind!!

JUST WHAT I NEEDED!!

“These things I have spoken to you, so that in Me you may have peace. In the world you have tribulation, but take courage; I have overcome the world.” John 16:33

I came home with a song in my heart and the JOY of hearing a beautiful song stuck in my kids heads that they keep singing over and over - I LOVE IT!!

Counting it ALL Joy!!

Something Beautiful - Loving Kids

2010-09-13T05:37:00.002-05:00

Today I am joining my friend Renee for Something Beautiful. I hope you will find something beautiful in your life and share it with us.

For this weeks Something Beautiful, I want to share a picture with you. On Friday I had my phone laying on the arm of my sofa and when I went back to get it, this is what it looked like!! Shane, my 23 year old son had picked it up, played with a silly app, written this, and saved it as my screen saver.

When you have babies and you just love them so much and you try so hard to make the right choices for them. As they grow up, you continue to love them and to teach them and still you hope and pray you are making the right choices for them, especially when they don’t think the choices or decisions you are making are the best. When they go through their teenage years and it sometimes seems to them that you are unfair, when all their friends are doing all these fun things and they don’t get to, when all their friends get to watch certain tv shows or movies and they don’t, when they don’t get to date when they think they should. You just stand firm and pray hard and continue to make the sometimes unpopular choices.

The something beautiful in this is - in the midst of all that, and even after you are past all that, you have this love, so freely given!!

Thank you Shane for loving me!!

Her children arise and call her blessed... Proverbs 31:28

Counting it all Joy!!

Double Blessings!!

2010-09-09T05:42:00.002-05:00

Growing up, I always wanted to grow up and have 10 kids!! I loved babies, loved playing with little kids, and that sounded like a good round number, so why not!!! After our third baby (Drew) was born, we tried to have more babies, but it eventually became clear to me that it wasn’t God’s plan. I was really sad, but I loved the three I did have, so I resigned myself to being a mom of three!!

When Drew was seven, Shane was twelve, and Lindsey was fourteen, it started becoming quite obvious to me that my baby havin’ years were not quite over. I couldn’t believe it, all these years later and I was having another baby. I was so excited, but about as scared and timid as I was when I was pregnant with my first. I finally told Dan my suspicions and we bought a pregnancy test and hid in the bathroom to take it so the other kids wouldn’t know!! Just as I had suspected - positive. I immediately made a doctors appointment to confirm.

At this point, I was a little freaked out. I mean my other kids were really old and I was sure they wouldn’t know what to think. Plus, in my mind, I couldn’t help but feel sorry for this baby, it was going to be like an only child while the others all had each other. I remember asking God what in the world He was thinking and why I hadn’t gotten pregnant when I wanted to, back when the kids were way younger!! I nicely explained that it would have been better for this baby if it had come along when the other kids were younger and that now I was afraid this one would be lonely!!

I remember telling the kids and trying to be considerate of their feelings, especially our daughters. The next morning, Drew asked me if I was upset about the baby. I was shocked, I hadn’t meant to come across that way at all, I was truly excited. He began to explain to me that it was his fault I was pregnant and that he didn’t want me to be upset about it. He kept saying, “Mom, I did this!!” He told me that ever since he had turned seven, he had been giving his offering at church and praying every day that he would get a baby brother or sister, so this had to be his fault. Of course, I told him there was NO FAULT and that I was super excited about the baby and so thankful he had been praying for a baby. I encouraged him to thank the Lord for answered prayers.

Lindsey, on the other hand, was excited, but extremely sicked out!! She cornered me and in her very best, 14 year old, authoritative voice said, “Mom, I know how this happened, and I know I was probably even home when it did!!” She continued with, “I’m excited about the baby, but it better never happen again, that’s just sick!!” I couldn’t help but laugh!!

About a month later, Shane comes out of his room and said, “Mom, you might be mad at Drew and I, we’ve been praying every night for twins!!” I laughed and said, “it would sure be nice if you guys would run those prayer requests by me before you pray them so I can be ready for the outcome!!”

About the same time, I really started feeling like something wasn’t right with this pregnancy. I was about 3 1/2 months along and it just didn’t feel right!! I called my doctor and she had me come in so she could check me. She took one look at the size of my belly and said, “I think we will do an ultrasound.” This scared me bad, she even thought something was wrong!! A gallon of water later and I’m on the table praying that whatever it was, it wouldn’t be too bad. Right off, she kind of laughed and said, “You are right, this isn’t a normal pregnancy, there’s two of them!!” I couldn’t believe it, I laughed, and I cried, and I laughed some more!! Twins - REALLY!! I guess all that worrying about an only child was for nothing!! Obviously God had a plan after all and didn’t need my two cents!! And in the future, remind me to send all my prayer requests through my kids from now on!!

We were so excited all our worries and fears were taken care of just like God promises, and in the midst of all this, my kids were seeing answered prayers in such an obvious way!!

That’s the short version of how the twins came to be...

It was a great pregnancy, everything went as it should, I was health, happy, and LARGE!! You can thank me for not posting pictures!! Every part of me was extremely pregnant!!

9-9-99 - Identical twin boys!! Adam Daniel and Isaac Daniel (both named after their dad), they weighed in at 8 pounds a piece!! The first time they laid them in my arms, I remember the tears and the laughter!! They were so precious, so beautiful, and they stole my heart!! OH THE JOY!!!

Today, we will celebrate 11 years with two of the sweetest guys around!! They have filled my life with JOY!! Watching them grow has been such a blessing!! When they were little, they did everything alike, including sleeping positions.

They had their own little language that just cracked me up. They always wanted to dress alike. They always sat by each other at church. They got their teeth and lost their teeth on the same day. They cried when the other one got hurt or was sick. They played together and they even fought together, but they have always been best friends!!

Now they are big and they don’t do everything a like. They don’t dress the same, they don’t always pull their teeth on the same day, but they do still sleep the same and they still want the other one around all the time. They are very thoughtful and caring, there is hardly a time I get in the car that one of them doesn’t hurry and open the door for me!!

They still love all the same things, for the most part, and they are still best friends!! They don’t have their own language anymore, but they do finish each others sentences. They still hurt when the other one hurts, and they both love Jesus with their whole heart!!

This whole twin thing has been amazing to watch and I am so thankful and blessed that God picked me to be their mom!! I know God will do amazing things through them, He has already begun and I can’t wait to see all He has in store for them!!

I knew you before I formed you in your mother’s womb. Before you were born I set you apart and appointed you as my prophet to the nations. Jeremiah 1:5

Happy birthday Adam and Isaac!! These have been the best 11 years of my life!! I love you both so much!!

Counting it all Joy!!